The Divorce Resource that's Beyond Important

 Let’s talk about Divorce.

  It's a hard word to say.

One of my clients went an entire year before she told anyone she worked with that she was divorced. Our culture attaches shame to the word divorce.  Our culture attaches failure to the word divorce.

Women are more likely to accept blame for the end of the marriage. There are social and cultural forces guiding her to do so. Women tend to assume emotional responsibility for the success of the marriage and parenting, and are therefore more likely to personalize the marriage ending and experience greater feelings of guilt and shame about divorce and parenting. These feelings of guilt and shame can last long after the marriage ends as can the feelings of devastation.

No matter what stage of divorce you are in, divorce can feel like an emotional wrecking ball hitting you in the gut with each swing. 

But the ending of a marriage in divorce, also creates a clearing for new growth. 

I’m Jodi Peary, a psychologist and former family law attorney who has spent two decades guiding individuals and families through the major life change of divorce. I believe divorce can be an opportunity for transformation and the gateway to a happy life. You deserve to be happy, to love and feel loved.

Break-Up To Brilliance is a FREE workbook I created to help women create boundaries, take stock of where they are right now in all of the areas of their life, create a blueprint for the life they want to lead and take steps toward that new life.

 There are three main stages to any divorce,

Ending,

Orienting, and

Beginning.

Ironically, “Ending” is the first stage.

Here we create a narrative for the divorce that truly reflects what we experienced and our own truth. We deliberately attend to letting go of the marriage and move into new roles. We create boundaries that help us to move into a new life. The Workbook addresses the tasks and intentions of ending.

In the Break-Up To Brilliance workbook, we’re going to address:

✨ How setting new boundaries plays a role in emotional management 

✨ A comprehensive strategy to identify situations that cause strong emotions

✨ A guided exercise to determining the impact of divorce in every area of life as well as a formula for determining the priority of attending to each.

✨ Examples of possible boundary-setting scenarios and phrases you can use in practice

✨ And an action plan that is authentic and aligned to your purpose.

 Taking the time to move through these three stages with intention, curiosity, self-love, and imagination will help you move past the pain of divorce, and into a time of meaningful growth.

 Let’s begin your growth journey - together!

Free Break-up to Brilliance Workbook