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How Divorce Can Sky Rocket Your Trust in the Universe

Divorce teaches us how to live differently.
 
 Not completely but usually our life and the way we move within it will be in significantly different ways.
 
 Divorce is a teacher for many of us.  But thriving through and after the transition is not rooted in "should have" or "wish I would have."
 
Research shows that when women take a good hard look at their lives post divorce and  notice that not only did they make it but they are thriving after divorce they gain an overall sense of security.
 
Brenda said, "Well, it ended up being a time...you know because he would get the girls every other weekend, all of the sudden, I have free time.”
 
Brenda hadn't wanted free time. Free time meant loneliness and pain. Brenda wanted her time alone to pass and the horrible pain she was having to go away.
 
Time did pass as it always does, but it felt like it did so very slowly until one particular day when her daughters were with their dad. She noticed that she had gradually pulled through the toughest part of the divorce process. Brenda felt proud of herself. On that otherwise ordinary day and without any warning, Brenda saw the time without her girls (for the first time) as a chance to do something she had always wanted to do but never felt brave enough to do when she was married. 
 
 
Brenda knew she could trust the world and her role in it because she held in her heart and mind first hand evidence of her strength and determination.
 
She saw the day that lie before her as a chance to do something she had always wanted to do but never felt brave enough to do when she was married. Brenda took a dance class.  Brenda, who thought of herself as uncoordinated and clumsy, began to take modern dance.
 
Now, six months later she added ball room dancing to the mix and goes on the Friday's when she doesn't have her girls.
 
Brenda doesn't want romance; what she wants is to have some fun.
 
The thing is Brenda also wanted more fun in her life when she was married but never followed up on it.
 
Brenda's viewed making it through her divorce as a sign of her strength and competence. She was able to have more trust in herself and the world. This effect was exactly the opposite of what she expected, as she expected the divorce would destroy her.
 
Have you experienced a positive growth experience from having gone through your divorce?
 
What's your trust level like these days?
 
Can you connect with your inner strength and potential for well being?

 

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