What is Enlightened CoParenting™ ?

Among the many challenges of building a new life post-divorce, one of the most difficult is the concern, anxiety, fear, and sadness we feel regarding our children. 

We thought we'd be married forever.

In the beginning, that old life is the only one we can imagine.

What we fear our future holds is not the life we planned on for ourselves or our children. 

Yet we have and intend to keep doing our best!

I encourage you not give up on your dream of a happy family life. Instead, I would like you to consider re-imagining it.

I have helped thousands of individuals and families through divorce.

I have been by their side as they moved from uncertainty and heartbreak to hope and renewal.

In order to reach more families, I created the Enlightened CoParenting™ method, a step by step approach to realizing the benefits of healthy coparenting.

What Is The Enlightened CoParenting™ Path?

 A  coparenting method that:

• Makes it possible to have a healthy coparenting relationship with your ex;
• Deepens your relationship with each of your children;
• Enhances emotional intelligence in children and thereby boosts their resilience and ability to experience healthy relationships as they become adults;
• Helps you develop a coparenting plan that you and your family can actually and peacefully live with;
• Supports your journey to find your authentic self and heal from the ravages of divorce;
  
• Is for coparenting children at every age and every stage of development.

Divorce itself is not harmful to children. 

Conflict between parents is.

I know this is not the first time you have heard this. Of course, you would love to diminish all conflict yet....if it were that easy to get along, we probably wouldn't have had to go through divorce in the first place.  That is the very reason that I developed Enlightened CoParenting™! It does not make healthy coparenting the easiest thing you will ever do but it does make healthy coparenting possible in a very real way.

You start by learning what causes and stokes conflict.

You gain tools to work through conflict as it arises.

You learn how to communicate and negotiate with your co-parent, even those with very difficult personalities, even those with narcissistic traits.

You receive step by step instructions for setting up your household, parenting, and schedules to ease the challenges of moving between homes for children.

You will receive templates and tools for building your own Enlightened CoParenting™ Parenting Plan. that fits your family and your lives.

• You will learn how to parent to enhance the emotional intelligence within yourself and your children, thereby enhancing resilience and a foundation for future healthy relationships and deepening the parent-child relationship.

Coparents can work with Dr. Peary individually, consecutively, or together.

Get Your FREE Enlightened CoParenting Essentials Checklist TODAY ! Start building that better life for you and your children!  Download your free Enlightened CoParenting™ Parenting Plan Essentials Checklist!

Dr. Jodi Peary is a psychologist, and former family lawyer, who specializes in helping individuals and families before, during, and after divorce. She is passionate about and uniquely qualified to help in ways that mental health professionals or legal professionals alone cannot.  The intersection of these specialties is where we often need help the most when we are contemplating, going through, or healing from divorce.